Former Fat Friend

Busting Bariatric Myths

Episode 14: Join Kasey, Lisa, and Allie as they share their incredible journey of losing over 370 pounds together. They know firsthand what it's like to be the "fat friend," and they're here to dive deep into the myths and fears surrounding bariatric surgery.
In this episode, we’re tackling the common misconceptions and anxieties that many people have about weight loss surgery. From the fear of complications and hair loss to concerns about never feeling "normal" again, we're breaking it all down with humor and honesty.
We also chat about how our lives have changed for the better, the surprising realities of post-op life, and why finding a supportive community is so crucial. Whether you're considering surgery or just curious about the process, we hope this episode offers some clarity and comfort.
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Operation Get It Together: Catching Up and Realigning Goals

Episode 13: Welcome back to Season 2 of the Former Fat Friend Podcast! 🎉 It's Kasey, Lisa, and Allie here, and we're super excited to catch up with you all. We took a summer break, but our health journeys and friendships kept going strong.
In this episode, we dive into everything that's been going on in our lives. From Allie's shift from home workouts to joining various fitness classes and beginning to work with an online coach, and Lisa's journey towards scheduling her plastic surgery while tackling some weight regain, to Kasey's big move and Operation Get It Together success story—there's a lot to unpack!
We also discuss the challenges of balancing life, work, and health goals, and how we've adapted to changes in our routines. Whether it's dealing with regain, adjusting workout plans, or finding that sweet spot between indulgence and discipline, we're here to share it all.
Join us as we navigate the ups and downs of our weight loss journeys and offer some real talk on what it takes to stay on track. And stay tuned for what's to come this season—mental health, maintenance tips, and much more!
Thanks for being part of our journey. We love hearing from you, so keep those messages coming!
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Season One Finale: You Asked, We Answered!

Episode 12: Welcome to the season one finale of the Former Fat Friend podcast! Join Kasey, Lisa, and Allie as they celebrate an incredible first season and dive into a special Q&A session with questions submitted by you, our listeners.
In this episode, the trio reflects on the highlights and challenges of their journeys, shares their tips for overcoming weight loss stalls, and opens up about their personal struggles with body dysmorphia. They also discuss the impact of weight loss on relationships and friendships, and offer heartfelt advice to their former fat selves.
From practical travel tips to navigating social situations post-surgery, this episode is packed with valuable insights and candid moments. Whether you're at the beginning of your weight loss journey or well into maintenance, you'll find inspiration and support in this honest and uplifting conversation.
Thank you for an amazing first season! We’ll be taking a summer break but will be back in August with more inspiring stories and valuable tips. We’ll miss you and can’t wait to continue this journey together in season two. Until then, take care and keep thriving!
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Suzanne's 17-Year Success Story: Life After Gastric Bypass

Episode 11: This week, we have a truly special guest on the Former Fat Friend podcast—Allie's mom, Suzanne! Join Kasey, Lisa, and Allie as they dive into Suzanne's incredible 17-year journey post-gastric bypass surgery.
With candid reflections and heartfelt moments, Suzanne shares her experiences from the initial challenges and triumphs of losing over 100 pounds to the long-term success and lifestyle changes that have kept her healthy and happy. Listen in as she discusses the emotional and physical hurdles, the impact of her transformation on her family, and the unexpected joys of fitting into her beloved Lily Pulitzer clothes.
In a touching conversation, Suzanne opens up about the importance of perseverance, the support of loved ones, and the practical tips that have helped her maintain her weight loss for nearly two decades. Whether you're considering bariatric surgery or looking for inspiration to stay on track, this episode offers valuable insights and a powerful message of hope.
Join us for an episode filled with wisdom, laughter, and a few tears. Suzanne's story is a testament to the enduring power of determination and the support of a loving community. Don't miss this intimate and inspiring conversation.
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Single, Married, or Dating: Navigating Relationships Post-Weight Loss

Episode 10: This week, Kasey, Lisa, and Allie dive into the juiciest topic yet—dating and relationships post weight loss surgery. With over 370 pounds lost between them, they share their unique experiences and how their love lives have evolved.
From navigating first dates while learning to eat again, to dealing with newfound confidence, and even the emotional rollercoaster of sharing their weight loss journeys with their partners—it's all on the table. And don't miss the sweet surprise when Kasey's boyfriend and Allie's husband share their thoughts on their transformations!
If you've ever wondered how weight loss surgery impacts dating or if you're just here for the heartfelt stories and laughs, this episode is for you. Grab your tissues (and maybe a glass of wine), and join us for an intimate, real, and uplifting conversation.

Loose Skin and Plastic Surgery: The Realities of Post-Weight Loss Transformations

Episode 9: In this intimate episode of the Former Fat Friend podcast, we delve deep into the world of loose skin and plastic surgery, a hot topic in the weight loss community. Kasey, Lisa, and Allie get real about their personal battles with loose skin following significant weight loss and the complex feelings that come with it.
Allie candidly shares her unexpected emotional journey towards considering breast surgery, a decision she once thought was purely vanity-driven. Meanwhile, Lisa opens up about her insecurities surrounding her legs and her determination to pursue a thigh lift, despite her concerns about the outcome.
Kasey recounts her own transformative plastic surgery experience, offering a raw and detailed account of her challenging recovery. From the initial pain and swelling to the gradual, rewarding improvement in her body's appearance, Kasey's story is a testament to the mental and physical journey that plastic surgery entails.
The conversation takes a practical turn as the hosts discuss the importance of selecting the right surgeon, managing expectations, and the financial aspects of undergoing plastic surgery. They emphasize the value of personal referrals and consultations in making informed decisions.
Join us for a truly intimate and informative episode that sheds light on the lesser-discussed aspects of life after massive weight loss. Whether you're considering plastic surgery or just curious about the process, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt advice from those who've walked the path.
 
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Laura Flusche's (@fluscheeitaway) 270-pound Weight Loss Journey and the Power of Sharing Your Story on Social Media

Episode 8: In this episode of the Former Fat Friend podcast, we are thrilled to have the remarkable Laura Flusche, also known by her Instagram handle @fluscheeitaway, join us for an intimate conversation about her transformative weight loss journey. Laura opens up about her life before and after bariatric surgery, detailing the emotional and physical challenges she faced as a new mother during the pandemic, leading up to her highest weight of 384 pounds.
With authenticity and grace, Laura shares her experience with the modified duodenal switch, which helped her lose over 270 pounds. The discussion takes an inspiring turn as she talks about her evolving weight loss goals, the realities of post-op life, and the importance of setting realistic expectations, especially when it comes to plastic surgery after massive weight loss.
Laura also delves into the complexities of managing a rapidly growing social media presence, navigating the balance between sharing personal triumphs and maintaining boundaries. She offers sage advice for those looking to share their own journeys online, emphasizing the power of authenticity and engagement.
The conversation doesn't shy away from the tough questions either, as Laura addresses how she manages discussions around food, nutrition, and body image with her children in a household where both parents have undergone bariatric surgery.
Join us for an episode that's as informative as it is inspiring, filled with candid moments and valuable insights into weight loss, social media, and the enduring power of community support.
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Chatting About Trigger Warnings, Goal Weights, and Bariatric Surgery as the Easy Way Out

Episode 7: In this candid and exploratory episode of the Former Fat Friend podcast, hosts Kasey, Lisa, and Allie switch things up and dive into a spontaneous "Chatting About" series. Unscripted and unrestrained, they delve into a wide array of topics that are top of mind, ranging from the nuances of trigger warnings on weight-related content to the often humorous interactions with others as it relates to food and food choices. 
Kasey, Lisa, and Allie don't shy away from the personal either, as they share heartfelt stories that reveal the unexpected emotional hurdles they've encountered post-weight loss. Allie's poignant reflection on motherhood and the physical changes that come with significant weight loss is a raw testament to the deep-seated connections between body image and family dynamics.
The conversation takes a turn towards the concept of goal weights, where the hosts question the importance and practicality of setting a specific target number. They unpack the psychological drive to keep pushing for new milestones and the realization that success isn't always a fixed point, but rather a flexible and evolving state of being.
Join us for an episode that's as much a group therapy session as it is a podcast. It's an honest, unfiltered discussion that will resonate with anyone who's ever grappled with the emotional complexities of weight loss, the pressures of societal expectations, and the journey towards self-acceptance.
 
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Gastric Bypass and GLP-1s: Carolin_RNY Shares Her 200 Pound Weight Loss Journey in Treating Chronic Obesity

Episode 6: In this episode of the Former Fat Friend podcast, we're thrilled to welcome our first-ever guest, Carolin Tyler, an Instagram sensation in the weight loss community. Carolin, known to her followers as @carolin_rny, joins hosts Kasey, Lisa, and Allie to share her incredible journey of shedding over 200 pounds post-gastric bypass surgery and navigating life on GLP-1 medications.
With a starting weight of over 400 pounds, Carolin's decision to undergo bariatric surgery was a life-altering one, leading to the best years of her life thus far. She delves into the realities of chronic obesity, the challenges she faced as her weight loss plateaued, and the pivotal role GLP-1 medications (like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro) have played in her ongoing battle against the disease of obesity.
In a candid conversation, Carolin addresses the complex emotions surrounding food and the necessity of additional tools in her weight loss arsenal. She also broaches the controversial topic of GLP-1 medications within the bariatric community and the criticism some face for choosing that treatment plan.
This episode is a deep dive into the multifaceted nature of weight loss, the stigma surrounding obesity and its treatments, and the power of community in fostering understanding and support. Carolin's story is a testament to the courage required to ask for help and the resilience needed to manage a chronic condition like obesity.
For anyone struggling with their weight, considering bariatric surgery, or curious about the role of GLP-1 medications in weight management, this episode is a must-listen. It's a raw and honest look at the complexities of weight loss, the power of self-advocacy, and the strength found in community.
 
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Confronting the Comparison Conundrum: Navigating Self-Doubt on a Weight Loss Journey

Episode 5: In this raw and reflective episode of the Former Fat Friend podcast, Kasey, Lisa, and Allie venture into a stark yet vital subject which often manifests in weight loss transformations - unhealthy comparisons.
Our hosts, who've collectively lost over 370 pounds with bariatric surgery, open up about their unique journey. They recount personal experiences, shedding light on their battles with self-doubt and insecurities engendered by comparisons. They discuss the resilient mindset necessary to foster self-acceptance and personal growth against a backdrop of constant physical and psychological transformation.
In an era dominated by social media, this episode broaches the dual role it plays in fostering motivation and occasionally sowing seeds of insecurity. Our hosts discuss the importance of ethical narratives on social platforms and stress on the significance of focusing on personal progress, driving home the inherent truth about the uniqueness of every health journey.
Join us in this enlightening podcast episode as we uncover the intricacies of battling unhealthy comparisons in weight loss and lifestyle transformations. Learn from personal experiences, get insights, and transform your struggles into tools of growth.
Whether you're navigating post-surgery life, struggling with comparison, or seeking a community that gets it, this episode offers a candid look at the emotional hurdles of weight loss and the unspoken battles that come with it.
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Don't forget to tune in next week for another dose of empathy, encouragement, and empowering conversations.